Thursday, November 27, 2008

Healthy Love

Sure, love is blissful when it's for you. Otherwise it's pretty sure not. This thing they called love has a lot of meaning and has been defined in many ways. But whatever they are one thing's sure; love has the power to bring a person to the heavens of happiness, or to the abyss of sadness. Love can also bring you hurt and pain. When you're just so in to it, you do some damn crazy things that you never expected you would. And you always feel like time can never have a chance to step in just to fade such a feeling—the feeling to be in love. 

But as they often say, everything has its own end. We just don't know when. If ever that time comes, maybe it has come for a reason. And that reason might be hard to understand. Thus there's nothing we can do with that anymore but to simply let go of the feeling. Letting go of a person you learned to love is never easy especially when you've learned to love the person with all your heart, with all your life, with all you have. But if that person has lost the love for you, then I guess you just have to do what's needed.

Just bear in mind, however you pretend your okay but when inside you're dying, you would still find a hard time shielding your heart from such pain. Trying to hide what you really feel won't help you either. I would say, feel the pain. Feel every emotion that's inside of you. If you have to break down and cry, then do it. Cry as hard as you can. Bring those emotions to tears. Slowly bring them out of you. You don't need them inside.

Don't be afraid to take chance to fall in love again. Remember: to live is to love, and to love is to live. You should never stop from loving unless you choose not to live. Love again as if you haven't loved before. Rekindle a love once more!

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